i am a new user at this site, this is my first real posting, except for a comment i made elsewhere yesterday. it was that comment in the forum however which leads me here now. my first joeuser experience was this: another writer had posted an invitation for debate, i came and made a comment, then it was deleted out. i believe i was on topic and it wasn't offensive in a way i could determine, and i was speaking what was true for me; so what's the deal? is this common on this site? is...